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..may not work tomorrow.

I received a comment from a reader on Five Steps To Better Cunnilingus - she said that the five steps were great, but there needs to be a sixth. Basically, whatever techniques someone going down on her may know, or not, if a particular thing gets her off today it may not work tomorrow.

I should have mentioned that

There are a variety of emotional and physical factors at play in the slow and pleasurable journey that is a sincere attempt at cunnilingus. Perhaps she’s had a crappy day, maybe she’s tired, maybe she’s hormonally challenged, maybe she’s extra horny and just wants a cock or a vibrator inside her right fucking now!

So - if gentle stretching with your fingers while you lick around her clit is what usually works, and it doesn’t seem to be working today, try something different. If her normal buttons aren’t being pushed, use your imagination and try something new. It is good to be prepared and have your standard set of half-a-dozen techniques that normally drive her nuts, but if they aren’t working, be prepared to be adventurous.

Good luck with it, and looking forward to hearing your feedback.